transformation requires deep looking within self

Remember that you are your own expert... you can look to others for the magic bullet answers and you can seek outside yourself for the key but ultimately it is only you that can take the transformational steps required to get you to your new state. You have all your own answers through your own intuition. Look within. Staying true to you is a challenge especially when others may be trying to convince you of their point of view. Beware of conversations that occur with people who have an agenda for you to go down their way of thinking. Check in deeply with yourself first before any action. It is powerful to know that you have arrived at a new place through your own effort and decisions. You get to take all of the credit and all of the satisfaction. Also on the other hand all of the consequences are yours too. It is worth it in my opinion. The ultimate power is full on personal responsibility for your own life.